Family Conflict Management – to boldly go where Angels fear to tread

All forms of conflict management, and conflict resolution, are challenging, especially when you’re trying to achieve the holistic resolution of all issues (legal, moral, financial and human), rather than just trying to achieve a basic (financial and legal) settlement.  The most challenging of all conflicts are those where some of the central issues relate to […]

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7 Golden Rules for Avoiding Family Conflict

Worldwide mythology, the Bible, mountains of literature, movies, social media and traditional news all have a strong recurring theme: family conflict. According to insurance surveys, over 50% of all car accidents involving injuries occur within 7kms of home.  It makes sense – every journey starts and ends close to home, so you’re there more than […]

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Dispute Resolution – Deconstruction to avoid Destruction

From many victims’ perspectives, disputes look huge, complicated and unmanageable, with no obvious resolution trajectory.  Think: “how can I eat this elephant?” From an outsider’s perspective, the same dispute may look very different.  Without the strong emotions, it’s easier to perform a rational analysis that calmly evaluates complexity, urgency and solution entry points.  If the […]

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Conflict Resolution – Deconstruction to avoid Destruction

From many victims’ perspectives, conflicts look huge, complicated and unmanageable, with no obvious resolution trajectory.  Think: “how can I eat this elephant?” From an outsider’s perspective, the same conflict may look very different.  Without the strong emotions, it’s easier to perform a rational analysis that calmly evaluates complexity, urgency and solution entry points.  If the […]

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Conflict Management – Cut the Costs of Conflict

All conflict is damaging and costly, and its costs are not purely monetary.  Agile Conflict Management helps to cut conflict costs. There are 3 phases in Agile Conflict Management: Conflict Prevention – requires appropriate use of Strategies, Structures, Systems and Skills: Strategies – having a plan that enables you to identify risks early so they […]

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